Determining if divorce is the right answer

On Behalf of | Jun 27, 2022 | Family Law

Divorce can disrupt a family’s dynamic and shift relationships between its members. Couples considering splitting as an option to resolve marital woes should carefully determine whether or not proceeding is in their best interest.

Ending a marriage might yield numerous benefits including financial independence and an opportunity for families to prevent ongoing strife from hurting their future success. Divorcing for the right reasons can improve the confidence and outcome of everyone involved.


The long-held belief that divorce only happens to couples who were never compatible in the first place is a falsehood. Even couples who once enjoyed a calm and happy relationship can grow apart, develop differing beliefs and disagree on topics like parenting and finances. These differences might disrupt their relationship and create a tumultuous environment for both parties. According to The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, out of 1,000 marriages in the state, nearly three couples divorce. Some examples of things that could induce incompatibility may include the following:

  • Conflicting political views
  • Boredom
  • Weight gain
  • Lack of communication
  • Mental illness
  • Traumatic injury


Another valid reason for couples to divorce is due to mistreatment. Psychology Today reminds people that abuse can take on many forms including fiduciary, physical, verbal and emotional. Domestic violence, alcohol abuse, infidelity and narcissism can all contribute to a volatile and dangerous relationship. People involved in a marriage with frequent mistreatment may feel threatened, controlled and unable to enjoy life.

Given the significance of divorce, many people find that working with their legal counsel provides some relief. An early start to protecting the things that matter might help people to minimize the negative repercussions of their split.